Problem with Cedars is that being a JW with the correct pedigree scored him a bride he couldn't have dreamed of had he been worldly.
Her JW background was also a huge factor into her putting so much faith in him early on in the marriage and looking the other way despite all the warning signs. He even explained it in his book and in videos by insisting that fleeing to Croatia would be helpful to his spirituality. He explicitly warned her that if they were to stay in the UK and face the brunt of his punishment that his faith would suffer.
This was his explanation after being caught sexting worldly teens! Well… as long as he was putting in those field service hours and said he was sorry… Perhaps he put in a word for Jehovah with his online love interests victims and counted that time.
“Nice pic! U look hot!! XOXOXO. As the Song of Solomon 4:5 reads in the New World Translation: Your two breasts are like two fawns. The twins of a gazelle. That feed among the lilies”.
I understand that confrontation was not in Dijana’s nature, so it makes sense how he started arguments he knew she would immediately try to diffuse for the sake of family harmony. How he feels about their relationship now can be found in his song lyrics. One of them stood out when he claimed that a lover made him “misbehave” - quite an obvious reference to his ex-wife and their sexual incompatibility. He also made reference in his stand-up gig to the fact that he has a hard time getting women past the initial date.
Poor Lloyd. I actually agree with him that it is Dijana’s fault. He’s learnt the hard way that most women are way more critical and less forgiving than she was.